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September 11, 2008
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A Farewell to Dr. Nwafejoku Okolie Uwadibie
THE
IMPECCABLE MARSHAL
By Joe
Ifeanyi Iyegbu
President, Issele-Uku Assoc. of North America

The
greatest praise one can pay Nwafejoku Okolie Uwadibie is to say that, in the
highest sense, he was a true Nigerian, a great patriot, and a trusted
friend.
My friendship with Uwadibie goes back to
our teenage years in the nineteen sixties when we were students at the
Pilgrim Baptist Grammar School, here in Issele-Uku. He took the name
(a.k.a.) “Impeccable Marshall” and all his friends and school mates called
him by that name. He was as popular as any student could be at that time due
to his out going, friendly and amiable character. His leadership qualities
soon became apparent in 1968, as he was selected the Senior Prefect of
P.B.G.S. Issele-uku, among the class of twenty nine peers. He was born to
lead, and he led by example.
He represented the school in the local
and regional athletic meets, and went on to represent the Mid West and
Nigeria in other National and international athletic games. He then went on
to work as a coach for the Nigeria Sports Council in Lagos after leaving
secondary school in 1969.
Uwadibie came to the United States in the spring of 1977 with an athletic
scholarship and began his academic career at the New Mexico Community
college, Hobbs, N.M. From there he transferred to the University of Colorado
in Denver where he received his Bachelor Degree in Economics in 1980. He
went on to receive the Master and Ph.D in economics and public
administration in 1995.
He published two books:
Decentralization and Economic Development in Nigeria (2000) and
Nigeria in the 21st Century
(2005)
Uwadibie began his teaching career at Aurora Community College in
Denver, Colorado and went on in subsequent years to teach at Lane Community
College, University of Phoenix, and University of Colorado in Denver and
finally became Dean of Academic Affairs, Palm Beach Community College in
Boca Raton, Florida: a position he held until he suddenly passed away on
July 2nd, 2005.
Uwadibie’s interest and involvement in community affairs was
unprecedented. He spent all his life uniting people, restoring hope,
settling disputes, lending a hand, improving lives, and bringing joy to the
people he met. His great interest in the welfare of his community and
country reflected his passion for leadership in the numerous organizations
and associations he belonged. And for the record, he was the first president
of the Denver chapter of Issele-uku Association. He was the first National
President of the Issele Association of North America, and also president of
the Anioma Association of Florida, USA, Inc. His love for people and the
ease with which he made friends and built bridges knew no bounds.
When Uwadibie walked into a party, a new life is injected into the
gathering and friends become invigorated. Faces light up with smiles and fun
conversations take over. Friends couldn’t seem to get enough of his charming
and captivating persona. Uwadibie made people smile, and made people feel at
home and among friends. He was a great joker and a humorist. People
remembered his warmth and friendship long after they met him.
Uwadibie bu onye Issei to the core.
Uwadibie loved life completely and he lived it to the fullest. He loved the
people, the culture and the traditions. He spoke the language and the idioms
with outstanding clarity. He believed in his people and was open and
welcoming to other cultures.
He was fearlessly outspoken but humble in his approach and very
respectful to all. He saw injustice and was not afraid to speak up against
it; he saw suffering and was not hesitant to lend a hand. His academic
position did not override his commitment to his less fortunate friends but
he never failed to glorify his achievements, fondly referring to himself as
“Professor Uwadibie”
He was a great family man. He was married and had two promising sons,
Ashiedu and Osemeke who are not here today with us to honor their father. He
was an avid believer in higher education. He was instrumental to the
building and completion of the Issele-Uku public library. He gave
scholarships to relatives and other needy individuals alike to pursue their
academic goals. Uwadibie was always ready and willing to share what he had.
In the numerous visits he made to Houston over the years, my children came
to know him simply as “Uncle Uwadibie” because of the way he played, joked
and laughed with them.
In what now appears to be a twist of fate, Uwadibie assembled friends
from all parts of the United States and beyond on that fateful July 2nd 2005
in Florida, and in the midst of a happy occasion, he bid the world a
farewell. That’s Uwadibie as we knew him; a happy, easy going, life loving
gentleman who would never have liked it any other way.
A piece of each of us died with him. Yet, in death he gave of himself
to us. He gave us a good heart from which the laughter came. He gave us a
profound wit, from which a great leadership came. He gave us kindness and
strength fused into a human courage to seek peace and common good. Such were
the qualities of Nwafejoku Okolie Uwadibie, and so I dare say that he died a
noble death.
This,
therefore, is not a time to morn or grief. In fact if Uwadibie saw any one
in tears right now, he would say, and I quote:
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Don’t grief for me, now I’m free
I am following a path God chose for me
I took His hand when I heard Him call
Turned my back and left it all |
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I could not stay another day
To laugh, to love, to work or play
Tasks left undone must stay that way
I have found that peace at the end of the day |
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If my parting has left a void
Then fill it up with remembered joy,
A friendship shared, a thought, a kiss,
O’ yes, these precious things, I too, shall miss |
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Be not burdened with time of
sorrow
I wish for you, the sunshine of tomorrow
My life had been full; I’ve been blessed from above
With great family, good friends, and loved ones |
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Perhaps my time seemed all too
brief
But don’t lengthen it now with undue grief
Lighten up your hearts and be happy for me
God heard my plea and “He set me free” |
I say in
conclusion, the greatest tribute that we can pay to Nwafejoku Uwadibie this
day is to continue the work he so nobly started but could not finish because
his life was cut off so soon. For Uwadibie the “bright shinning star”, his
memory will remain evergreen in our hearts. And so, Bro, it’s been a great
time we all had and shared, and we will miss you. We bid you farewell and
goodbye.
August 5,
2005 |